Divorce Ceremonies

A divorce ceremony is new way to help couple end a relationship. A man created it in Japan. In his opinion, he considers that people get married to celebrate, so people are supposed to celebrate to end an unhappy marriage. It is like the wedding ceremony. Couples need to invite their relatives and friends to join it. Furthermore, they would use a hammer which a frog’s head is decorated on it to destroy their wedding rings. This hammer is called gavel. It means a new change in Japanese culture. After smashing the rings, couple has a new fresh start. However, during this special ceremony, people still share their stories about how they meet each other, how they fall in love and how they get married. Sometimes it could make couples think their love again. Later, they could decide not to get divorce. For me, I see marriage to be a sacred belief. After people get married, it means you exchange not only the rings but also people’s soul. It is not too easy to smash a marriage. People need to focus their thoughts on their communication and together find out the measure to solve any problem in the marriage. A marriage symbolizes that you give the soul to other one to care, protect and rely on. It is not merely a game.