A Friend Who Affects My Life

As we grow older, we face some people who affect us a lot in our lives. I would like to share a girl who is one of my most special friends in my life. She is called JiaJia. We met each other when we were junior college students.

Jia Jia has ever gotten her heart broken after she was cheated by her first boy friend. From then on, she totally changed. She did not only trust a love relationship. She could dates with many boys at the same time. It does not mean that she would like to hurt others but she devoted all her heart to all the boys. I met her when I studied in junior college. We saw each other as freaks. Although we have a lot of different characters, we are loyal to each other. We never want to develop a love relationship. Perhaps, some things are more important than getting a love relationship. It is friendship. We were so young and felt confident at the time, so we think that getting together with boy or a girl is easy for us; however, keeping a friendship is harder.

We can discuss any things which even include some sensational issues, such as sex, man, woman, and so on. During the years of campus life, we always stayed at the same team. This team consists of several unique classmates who like skipping class, are difficulties students, and some students who other teams did not accept. Nevertheless, these unique partners have the talent to pass any challenges about exam, paper and graduation paper. Jia Jia is good at how to socialize with others. If we face some problem which we could not handle, she could use her network to find someone help us. I was good at delivering a speech. Furthermore, other members in our team have various skills to urge our team to promote. Although in other members’ eyes, we are troublesome students, we trusted each other and completed many amazing accomplishment.

Jia Jia inspired me a lot. It is a pity that we would grow up. After graduating from school, we rarely contact with each other as before. Sometimes we would chat on the phone. Unfortunately, when I went to serve the military, we lost the contact. This year, I went to a night market and faced a classmate. She told me that Jia Jia confronted some finance problems because she worked for bank and sold Structured Note, which is related to Lehman Brothers Holding. I remembered last time when she came to my home, she already got this problem, but she said nothing to me. I guess that she just did not want to protect some valuable feeling in her mind.

Time passes seven years. This Chinese New Year’s Eve, I got a message from Jia Jia. The message said that a person can meet many friends but only few persons can make us to miss. I felt so touchy after I received this message. I'm a lucky guy who can make this meaningful friend in my life.